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Difficult Conversations

by Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton & Sheila Heen · 1999

Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, and Sheila Heen's guide to handling hard conversations, feedback, and conflict with clarity.

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Douglas Stone · Co-author of Difficult Conversations

Bruce Patton · Co-author of Difficult Conversations

Sheila Heen · Co-author of Difficult Conversations

Who recommends it

1 person has recommended Difficult Conversations. Each entry links to the source.

Portrait unavailable for Gabriel Weinberg Gabriel WeinbergDuckDuckGo founder

Included among books he returns to for lasting ideas.

Recommended · Wording not verified Source: The CEO Library
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Michael Dell portrait Michael DellFounder & CEO, Dell Technologies
I think it was called Difficult Conversations.
Mentioned · Exact quote Source: TIME
Evidence details Michael Dell Has Been a Tech CEO for 34 Years. He Has Some Advice For Younger Founders

Dell said a coach gave him the book in the 1990s, they discussed it for months, and constructive feedback conversations became incredibly important.

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TIME · 2021-10-31 · accessed 2026-06-22

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In the TIME interview, Dell names Difficult Conversations while describing coaching around constructive feedback and difficult leadership conversations.

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Douglas StoneCo-author of Difficult Conversations

Co-author of Difficult Conversations, named by Michael Dell in a TIME interview about feedback and leadership conversations.

Bruce PattonCo-author of Difficult Conversations

Co-author of Difficult Conversations, named by Michael Dell in a TIME interview about feedback and leadership conversations.

Sheila HeenCo-author of Difficult Conversations

Co-author of Difficult Conversations, named by Michael Dell in a TIME interview about feedback and leadership conversations.